If you don’t have confidence in your own self and your own abilities, how can you expect others to have confidence in you and your abilities? It all starts from within. Once you become confident with who you are and what you can do, through your speech and actions, others will feel that confidence exude through you, and will ultimately be more inclined to also gain confidence in you.
There are obstacles that present themselves throughout the lives of every, single person. You are not the only one, just like there is not one person who can say they live and have always lived ‘the perfect life’ (and if there is, please, someone do tell me who they are and what their secret is!) That said, your perspective on the issue, the way you decide to go about solving it and how much you let it take over other aspects of your life, determine how much power that obstacle or hardship has over you. Don’t let it win. Fight it. You can do it.
Life is not easy at times, and the greatest opportunities and experiences, most of the time, only appear once many, many hours of work have been dedicated towards them. Just because something is or may seem ‘hard’, doesn’t mean you can’t overcome it! 😉